Reframing Thoughts About Feeling Unloved

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Objective

I can identify and reframe negative thoughts about feeling unloved.

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Warm-up video

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Key concepts

3 concepts

  1. 1

    Automatic Negative Thoughts, or ANTs, are negative thoughts that can leave you feeling bad and stop you from problem solving.

  2. 2

    The "ANT Buddies" try to keep us safe by helping us identify what might hurt us and helping us to try and learn from our mistakes.

  3. 3

    To manage ANT Buddies, you can recognize the thought, swat the ant buddy with a thought-stopping statement, catch it to examine it, and question the thought to challenge the bug.

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Practice

3 questions

1

What are 'ANTs' as described in the video, and why are they important to recognize?

2

Describe the three steps you can take to 'swat' or 'stash' the 'ant buddies' when they appear.

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Exit ticket

Quick comprehension check

Describe a situation where you felt unloved, identify the negative thought (ANT) you had in that moment, and then reframe that thought into a more positive or realistic one.

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